Sounds like the system was working ok. The problem is that the home was stone cold to begin with. It takes a while for forced hot air, via a hot water coil, to heat a home that is at 55 degrees. Also, you don't get a huge delta T from a hot water coil with 55º supply water. When you started the dishwasher it really put it behind the 8 ball. If you took down some additional information like air handler cfm, piping size to hot water coil, dimensions and number of passes of the hot water coil and circ pump gpm you could give the manufacturer a call and explain the situation. They may be able to give you a design opinion.