I only had a few moments to look at the attic pics with the extensive condensation/frost. We've all seen many, many homes with inadequate insulation/ventilation/vapor barriers, thermal bypasses and leaky windows. Yes, they can often cause some moisture to condense and become frost. The condition shown in your pics however, show that there are bucket fulls of moisture in your home. You need to find and fix the source of moisture first. My first thought is the vent from gas-fired heating equipment or a gas fireplace isn't connected properly, spilling into the home and/or attic.